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LGBTAitp - Part Fifteen
Welcome, one and all.
This is a thread where we Playgrounders, and LGBTAitp in particular, gather to discuss, share our experiences, give general advice and support one another in such matters as arise relating to, well, the world beyond heteronormativity.
Please note that although the title of the thread names only the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Asexual communities, it is intended as an all inclusive environment.
- Everyone is welcome. Let's try to keep from seeming otherwise.
- Keep this topic free of politics and religion. (so, don't violate the board rules, plz)
- It's beyond the scope of this thread to discuss whether LGBT is "Right." (And really, most discussions probably should avoid moralizing too much anyway)
- Please refrain from posting sexually explicit content. (Keep it friendly as well as board safe :smallsmile:)
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Keep in mind that content which contain strong language may be filtered (Plus, y'know, the forum-filters), and content that violates the forum rules won't be posted at all.
Here are the links for the last few threads, where much of use or interest may be found:- LGBT people in the playground
- LGBT people in the playground - part II
- LGBTitp - part III
- LGBTitp 4: We are a family?
- LGBTitp - Part Five
- LGBTitp - Part Six
- LGBTitp - Part Seven
- LGBTitp - Part Eight
- LGBTitp - Part Nine
- LGBTAitp - Part Ten
- LGBTAitp - Part Eleven
- LGBTAitp - Part Twelve
- LGBTAitp - Part Thirteen
- LGBTAitp - Part Fourteen
*modified from the original.
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New thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*runs through spreading fluff and love and hugs*
Edit: Fun link for a bit of satire http://cisnews.tumblr.com/
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WarKitty
New thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*runs through spreading fluff and love and hugs*
Edit: Fun link for a bit of satire
http://cisnews.tumblr.com/
*Picks up a hug* :smallsmile:
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*picks up a hug and then takes the 9th corner of the thread and places pillows and blankets and othe comfy-ness* Yes! New thread!
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*sees he needs to improve business*
Hmm...
*hugs warkitty and pika*
hmm...
*tackles and hugs bluewind*
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WarKitty
An extremely little bit. Know the genesis personally?
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Coidzor
An extremely little bit. Know the genesis personally?
Not really. I just know it's supposed to be a bit of satire on how the media reports on stories involving trans* people.
So, erm, some awkwardness I'm slowly realizing.
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I am, although not exclusively, mostly sexually attracted to people with male bodies. I am, however, definitely not attracted to male genitals. The concept rather freaks me out actually. This is starting to weird me out. Not going to go into details due to forum rules, but...why, brain? How can I manage to be sexually attracted to someone and not like their genitals?
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turkishproverb
*sees he needs to improve business*
Hmm...
*hugs warkitty and pika*
......
I approve of your business strategies my good sir.
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WarKitty
Not really. I just know it's supposed to be a bit of satire on how the media reports on stories involving trans* people.
So, erm, some awkwardness I'm slowly realizing.
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I am, although not exclusively, mostly sexually attracted to people with male bodies. I am, however, definitely not attracted to male genitals. The concept rather freaks me out actually. This is starting to weird me out. Not going to go into details due to forum rules, but...why, brain? How can I manage to be sexually attracted to someone and not like their genitals?
Maybe you are meant to be with a transgendered man (formally woman)?
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I thought Rain was a really awesome read!
~ ♅
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Thanks for the resource, rayne. After some time to read, that answers a lot of the questions I had and silences many of my concerns on the procedure. Good stuff to know.
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I am, although not exclusively, mostly sexually attracted to people with male bodies. I am, however, definitely not attracted to male genitals. The concept rather freaks me out actually. This is starting to weird me out. Not going to go into details due to forum rules, but...why, brain? How can I manage to be sexually attracted to someone and not like their genitals?
*shrug* Phobias are as phobias do. I thought you'd already known this for a long time though? :smallconfused:Spoiler
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Dated a girl like that once. Was rather weird. Got a story about some kind of indecent exposure/threatened sexual assault with some kind of ex boyfriend as the only genesis of it that she could place.
Seemed to mostly die down the further along we got though. Whether there's any remote similarities between the two, I couldn't say, nor did I have access to the most crucial information for me to really speak from the scenario to give you any kind of... well, feedback.
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*glomps coidzor*
WAAAUUGH!!
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golentan
Thanks for the resource, rayne. After some time to read, that answers a lot of the questions I had and silences many of my concerns on the procedure. Good stuff to know.
*hugs golentan and AThousandWords from glomp position*
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Coidzor
WAAAUUGH!!
What did I do?
*Hugs*
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Coidzor
*shrug* Phobias are as phobias do. I thought you'd already known this for a long time though? :smallconfused:
Define "long time".
*glomps Coidzor as well*
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turkishproverb
*hugs golentan and AThousandWords from glomp position*
uhm, uhm, hi~ o////o
Do I know you? :smalltongue:
~ ♅
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Not formally, no.
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WarKitty
Define "long time".
*glomps Coidzor as well*
Mine! *huggles Coidzor*
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WarKitty
Define "long time".
*glomps Coidzor as well*
I thought you mentioned it to me a few months back... I think around beginning-to-middish spring. ...Maybe that was just a dream though... :smalleek: Great. Why on earth would I dream about something like that? :smallconfused:
My imagination hates me. :smallfrown:
*is buried quite thoroughly*
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Well Kitty, we all have our preferences, so don't feel bad, there's got to be someone out there that fits your liking. You'll find em, for now, just think on the happy side of things, you know what you want. :smalltongue:
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I think it's time I get more involves with this stuff, I'm one of few non-heteros in my area so why now!
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*hugs kingoflaughers from glomp position*
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*Bear hugs Turkishproverb*
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*meeps from bottom of pile and hugs anyone nearby and slowmoving*
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WarKitty
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I am, although not exclusively, mostly sexually attracted to people with male bodies. I am, however, definitely not attracted to male genitals. The concept rather freaks me out actually. This is starting to weird me out. Not going to go into details due to forum rules, but...why, brain? How can I manage to be sexually attracted to someone and not like their genitals?
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First off, *hugs*!
Moving on, I have been (am?) in a similar situation, and I might have a couple of thoughts. They're probably not entirely board-safe though, nor does the entire thread need to hear. Contact info's in my profile if you want the juicy, juicy details. :smalltongue:
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Coidzor
I thought you mentioned it to me a few months back... I think around beginning-to-middish spring. ...Maybe that was just a dream though... :smalleek: Great. Why on earth would I dream about something like that? :smallconfused:
My imagination hates me. :smallfrown:
*is buried quite thoroughly*
"Few months" when it comes to figuring out such things is not much. I'm slowly realizing that I'm not sure if it's a phobia or just not liking certain things. Doesn't help that I really don't have much experience with certain matters before the whole phobia-inducing mess started, so I can't always sort out what's what.
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golentan
*meeps from bottom of pile and hugs anyone nearby and slowmoving*
*special tentacle glomp for golentan*
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WarKitty
"Few months" when it comes to figuring out such things is not much. I'm slowly realizing that I'm not sure if it's a phobia or just not liking certain things. Doesn't help that I really don't have much experience with certain matters before the whole phobia-inducing mess started, so I can't always sort out what's what.
Well, this is a tad personal, but it may be that you find the fact that guys **** and piss from the same hole kinda disturbing, I mean I'm bi and I find it a slight bit, odd.
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WarKitty
So, erm, some awkwardness I'm slowly realizing.
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I am, although not exclusively, mostly sexually attracted to people with male bodies. I am, however, definitely not attracted to male genitals. The concept rather freaks me out actually. This is starting to weird me out. Not going to go into details due to forum rules, but...why, brain? How can I manage to be sexually attracted to someone and not like their genitals?
This wouldn't necessarily be odd. From what I've seen attraction can easily be to particular body parts, and some exclusions are pretty much expected. In this case, its to a body part that represents a fairly small part of the body, that is usually hidden anyways.
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KingOfLaughter
Well, this is a tad personal, but it may be that you find the fact that guys **** and piss from the same hole kinda disturbing, I mean I'm bi and I find it a slight bit, odd.
Um. No. Men do not have cloaca. Why on earth would you think that?
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Knaight
This wouldn't necessarily be odd. From what I've seen attraction can easily be to particular body parts, and some exclusions are pretty much expected. In this case, its to a body part that represents a fairly small part of the body, that is usually hidden anyways.
And yet generally rather pivotal vis a vis the whole sex thing... :smalltongue:
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WarKitty
"Few months" when it comes to figuring out such things is not much.
Still, if you already knew something, several months later it's a bit odd for you to say you're just now realizing it as you did, which is the only real point there. Clarification is a hell of a drug though.
And, well, generally revulsion is revulsion rather than just not liking things, so there's at least the severity of the stomach churning that can be used as a rough guide on the one hand. :/
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*sighs*
*bites coidzor and goes to bed*
Things will be better explained when it's not 3:30 AM.
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WarKitty
*sighs*
*bites coidzor and goes to bed*
Things will be better explained when it's not 3:30 AM.
I certainly hope so, then again I'm not entirely sure what to make of this at 3:36 AM myself.