... Please tell me she didn't build a shrine. :smallbiggrin:
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Originally Posted by Amotis
I don't know how one could keep up with more than one crush. I wouldn't think that they'd be very strong crushes...
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... Please tell me she didn't build a shrine. :smallbiggrin:
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Originally Posted by Amotis
I don't know how one could keep up with more than one crush. I wouldn't think that they'd be very strong crushes...
One time a partner built a small shrine to me. Not that great to find out. Flattering, but the scary overrides the flattering. :smalleek:
I guess I have a different use of the word crush. I can have two crushes at one time. I can call someone who interests me and that I want to get to know more a crush. Or I can have strong feelings for one. In that case, the other crushes tend to pale. It varies a lot I guess.
Logic, I didn't realize that was how seriously you use the word.
I just figure that anyone who says they have one on me just means the general interest, unless otherwise stated.
It was in his closet. He showed me while his friend was over and then closed the door to the closet... with us inside. Apparently that was supposed to be romantic in that cramped space, with the friend sitting right outside... and the candles on the shrine lit... :smalleek:
Locking me inside a closet next to a shrine to me? Not the best idea. And not a great mood setter.
I would find that extremely creepy.
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That is bizarre. o_O
I'm sorry to know you had to sort that one out.
Nah she didn't have a shrine....but I still remember that quote well.
Yes, it's a good dating tip in the 'what not to do' list. :smalltongue:
A) lock her in a closet
B) have a shrine in that closest. Doesn't matter if it's to her or not, though if it's to another girl... we can't help you.
C) assume that any mix of the above two will result in 'the mood'.
If I ever start dating than, I'll be sure to remember never to do those three things.
And Zeb, maybe a better mental note would have been to never mention the secret shrine anywhere she could find out about it.
Depends on the crush :smallwink:
It depends how you use the word. It has too many definitions to really be explained. For me, a crush is any sort of romantic attraction that I have for someone that I haven't told. Since neither if the two people I like know (Or they might, but I didn't tell them. I've been surprised here a couple times.) I would consider then crushes.
So what are they after they find out or you tell them?
An infatuation?
How about crush?
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Originally Posted by Crush'd
It's kind of difficult to explain.... but you have the general idea; when it reaches the level of obsession it's usually just for one person (and I'd find it rather scary if it wasn't), but milder crushes of the "wow, you're hot, I fantasise about you but it isn't going to go anywhere" type can overlap. I still have crushes of that type sometimes even though I'm in a very serious, exclusive and very loving relationship (and my girlfriend doesn't mind, because she knows she can trust me not to do anything inappropriate).
By the way, did you get my last PM? Just thought I'd ask to make sure the reason you haven't replied is not that I said anything offensive. I know it's unhealthy, but I do get paranoid about that sort of thing sometimes, on account of various incidents that have happened in the past..... but we won't go into that.
@Sir_Norbert - Yeah, I got it. I just haven't replied yet... for... reasons. I'll get to it. Don't worry. =P
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Curioisity doesn't kill Cat-Muffins, but I think I'll not risk it on this one.
Awww, somebody likes Chris.
Annonnymity makes Jibar sad.
I do multi-crush. I don't know if that speaks very well of me or anything.
I can manage it pretty well, but of course it's easier when it's an e-crush. Doesn't make it weaker though, it just functions on another social level.
You'd say an infatuation is stronger than a crush? And what could there be that is weaker than a crush, just liking someone? What about "liking-liking"? :p
Holy Great Koala Fey-Dude, calm down a bit. Just because somebody is taken doesn't mean you're not allowed to still crush on them.
Look at me, my only crushes in the playground both have boyfriends.
Naa, not all worried about it... [fresh prince will smith voice] Afta' all, dis bee got som' honey from' da hive*nudg* IF YA NOW WHAT IM SAYIN',YA!:smallamused: [/fresh prince will smith voice]
If you're going to defend yourself with smilies, at least use the big ones!
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I think, in that case, I would've gone for the classic raised voice 'verbal equivalent of a smack with a rolled-up newspaper', "Ewwwwww that's sick!" with a few more colorful adjectives added--hopefully before the door shut. Chocolate is the only item deserving of a hidden shrine. *lights a tealight before the chocolate eggs*