Hello all,
I've seen some Prince Ansom hating going on out there in the forum, and I just have to ask . . . why? He seems like a very decent guy, a good tactician, and an excellent diplomat. I've seen complaints that he is "arrogant," but I don't quite know where that's coming from. He's clearly in command of the army, so his job is to give orders. A commander giving orders is not necessarily "arrogant;" it's what he does!
As far as arrogance goes, he's not prideful enough (unlike Lord Stanley) to insist on his own way when Jillian confronts him with a better argument for her plan of action (her scouting on the Gwiffon) than he had for his (her staying home). They had a confrontation over it and he backed down. This is not something an arrogant commander does. And Prince Ansom backed down despite the fact that he clearly desperately cares for Jillian and does not want to see her get killed . . . er, croaked by one of Stanley's dwagons.
I found his "tent" offer to Jillian to be very gentlemanly and not at all out of bounds. He did not force himself on her, threaten her with punishments if she didn't visit him, or entreat her with blandishments. He simply informed her (in a low-key way) that she was invited to his tent. This is yet another argument why Prince Ansom should not be considered arrogant: he stepped out and let her know how he felt while giving her the time and space to make up her own mind about what she wanted to do. He left himself open to rejection, and rejection is what he got.
But DESPITE the fact that Jillian rejected his offer and did not visit his tent (late-night indecision notwithstanding), he is STILL very concerned about her well-being and wants to ensure that she is safe. Far from punishing her or sulking about, nursing his wounded pride, Ansom is right there in the morning insisting that she take a protective item and probably (given his dialogue) still worrying that she will be croaked by a dwagon. Sure, Jillian (as a proud Barbarian probably (although unjustifiably) somewhat insecure about being taken seriously in a military context as a female) views Ansom's gift of an abjuration item and admonishments to avoid engagement as a lack of trust, annoyingly patronization, and/or overprotection, but that doesn't negate the fact that Ansom is acting out of his deep concern for her well-being.
So, I think Ansom is a good guy and Jillian is lucky to have him looking out for her. Take your best shot, Ansom haters. :smallsmile: