I'll look through the SRD's list of Psionics powers and see what I think you might consider banning. When I have time. So either Sunday (college app, nvm) or the next week (everyone decided to have tests)...
Let's just say that's on my to-do list.
Also, I think you could make something like the Martial Dabbler in spirit, if not in fact. A PRC for fightin' (wo)men to try out TOB.
I personally like the idea of Incarnum, but I haven't looked at any of the classes in depth.
For Truenamers, you could probably throw a stone on the homebrewing forum and find three fixes, one of which you might like.

Wow, I use weird idiom when I'm tired and have music from Le Chorous stuck in my head.