The main things I want from Monk are:
Unarmed Damage (and DOESN'T lose Still Mind if I want Monastic Training)
Flowing has everything I want, with the only exception that it loses its 2nd feat.
That, and none of the Archetypes are necessarily better (other than the feat).
Fun Fact: The feat Monastic Training is best taken with EXACTLY 4 levels of Monk.