2012-10-02, 04:49 PM (ISO 8601)
Firbolg in the Playground
Re: Personal Woes and Advice 2
Okay, I'm sure I'm not the only person who will say this, but you really need some professional help. I had (have) similar problems, especially when I started college. With regards to feeling like you'd have less control than you do now, remember that when something like low self esteem, impostor syndrome, or depression is causing these sort of irrational, borderline delusional thoughts you don't have much control, and the therapist's job is to help you take the reigns back.
Originally Posted by AtlanteanTroll
I'm sure other people who have gone through more similar things could advise you about talking to your parents. The only thing I can think of is to minimize it a little. Like "I'm going through a stressful period in my life right now, and I think going to a therapist/psychiatrist/psychologist would help me develop some strategies for dealing with it more productively than I have been." Depending on your circumstances, it may not even be necessary to tell them right away. It's okay for children of any age to keep some private information from their parents.
Life is kicking my butt right now. I'm going to try to get in the every-other-day posting, but for the next couple weeks there are likely to be patches where I can't. When so, please NPC me as appropriate.
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