Quote Originally Posted by Tvtyrant View Post
I think there is something missing here. Why is talking in person okay but talking on the phone too painful?
A few reasons. First, because I would call and talk to Mom before she passed, so he associates me calling with her. Second, it's easier for him emotionally to just read my words rather than hear my voice.

It sounds like the two of you need to have a heart to heart about your relationship while on vacation.
I don't know what to say, though.