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2012-10-25, 02:35 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
The problem is they usually don't talk enough.
But even there, there is a caveat. You have to talk effectively. You can't just drone on about boring things, and you can't gush about useless things. You need to know how much to talk about everything, but if you talk enough, you will find that balance.
And don't upset it when you do, cause then the universe will explode.
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2012-10-25, 02:40 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-25, 02:50 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Don't know what people in relationships generally do, but what I do know is that misunderstandings (either one-sided or two-sided) happen much more frequently than you might think, and that those same misunderstandings can cause a plethora of much more serious problems.
(Proof: the plot of every single damn romantic comedy could easily be resolved with honest communication very early on. Yes, even the one where the woman pretends to be about to marry her employee to avoid being kicked out of the US, except they should have explained the situation to the guy's family. No, I don't like romantic comedies. In no small part because when those "cute" misunderstandings happen IRL, it doesn't end happily for everyone.)Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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2012-10-25, 03:23 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
I'm trying to imagine myself doing that without looking like a a clown of some kind because I've done it all wrong. Hmm, nope. Imagination Check = Failed. Still it's always impressive to see what kind of transformative magic can be worked with such sorcerous implements as properly applied makeup. Maybe one day...
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2012-10-25, 03:27 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Mmh, yeah, I want to dress up but I'm not sure what I'll be doing. I've got a big con this weekend I'm involved with and I'm moving into my new apartment tomorrow so I'm totally disorganised! I think even if you're not going out, it's fun to dress up!
I laughed!
It's a fairly common problem for couples to not properly communicate enough. It's one thing to chat, but it's another thing to actually talk and listen such that you and your partner are both happy and secure. You should be able to talk about your likes and dislikes and fears and expectations. Inside and outside of the bedroom!
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2012-10-25, 04:30 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
You should do it. Dressing up feels really nice. (She says while only having one top; well, it's a nice one. >.> )
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Also I just got back from hanging out with a trans girl friend of mine and we talked a bunch and it was fun. Especially since I don't really do the whole hanging out with offline people often.
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2012-10-25, 04:42 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-25, 05:38 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
I would highly recommend playing around with makeup (or clothes) if you get the opportunity. It may be uncomfortable at first, and it likely won't come out too well, but you have to start somewhere, and it can feel really excellent.
I suppose that's a good way of describing most of transitioning, actually.Last edited by Nix Nihila; 2012-10-25 at 05:38 PM.
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2012-10-25, 07:04 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
That really sums it up. Yeah, we all go through the 'clown makeup' phase (unless you're perfect or have someone sympathetic to assist you. Yay you)
But we all have to start somewhere. The only thing I can add is to start small. You will have a 'comfort zone.' Push it a little bit. Then a little more.
Just don't get overwhelmed. That's a surefire way to make yourself feel bad about yourself.
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2012-10-25, 07:18 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
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2012-10-25, 07:24 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
I'm reasonably sure this happens to most women and at least some non-women, regardless of what equipment you start with! Women are taught to learn quickly and invisibly how to groom themselves; make-up, hair, shaving, etc, but there is learning and it can be hilarious. The first time I tried to use kohl I just drew that stuff on all over. I think I was about 12. The astonishing thing is my mother just let me go out like that, and my friend fell around laughing at me and said I looked like I was trying to be Cleopatra. So ... yeah!
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And, here's Lana Wachowski talking about growing up trans. It's quite long so I haven't watched it yet but I thought I'd share it now anyway.Last edited by KenderWizard; 2012-10-25 at 07:29 PM.
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2012-10-25, 08:21 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
"It is important to draw wisdom from many different places. If you take it from only one place, it becomes rigid and stale." --Iroh
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2012-10-25, 09:59 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Thanks, luv! I was goin to say something but I forgotted it.
OH RIGHT! Using a double space on a notepad fiction from a mobile device replaces the second space with an asterisk when you copy and paste it. Just so you know~
Omega seems just to be a "we have everything! Letters! Numbers! Symbols! _________! Yes, even blank concepts filled in by by your own imaginings! So come on down to the Crazy Giant's LGBTQAthread, where WE have an attribution for YOU!"
Neptune was, quite literally, "I don't feel like mars, I don't feel like Venus, what's left? Neptune?"
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I am a curious creature. This is like, low grade torture. Would anyone be willing to weather extraforumular contact from moi?
Youch. I am painfully scrawny right now and almost exactly 65kg. I'm actually trying to reacquire some of my muscle mass, get back up to 70kg and backdown to a 24" waist.
Asta kask is actually a reptile. His length has increased, hence 6 to 12. Never said tall, right?
Alternately, same idea, adult themes. Viewer discretion advised.Last edited by SiuiS; 2012-10-25 at 10:14 PM.
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2012-10-25, 10:02 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Oh, Qaera used to use that one. Anyways...
I lol'd.
I like bright colors.
I hate makeup. Feels artificial.
On a "girly day", I'll wear brightly-colored jackets everywhere I go. I already have this bright-blue one.
Don't be silly. He's much more than just a reptile. We have this suspicion that he's a "Safe" classified SCP at the Foundation. We've just yet to confirm it.Steam username is Triscuitable.
I got VAC banned in COD: Ghosts for using an FOV changer.
I try not to think of how sad that is.
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2012-10-25, 10:31 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
*pounces in, hugs thread, pounces out*
Hail to the Lord of Death and Destruction!
CATNIP FOR THE CAT GOD! YARN FOR THE YARN THRONE! MILK FOR THE MILK BOWL!
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2012-10-25, 10:34 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
OMG I never get in the new thread until, like, 2nd page!! I'm so slow
A lot of people, actually, don't communicate well. They talk to each other, but there is a difference between talking to each other, and having meaningful communication between each other.
Just an FYI, that is like model size. Kinda just throwing that out there lady!
EDIT: Not that I really know what 60kg means, being in 'Merica
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2012-10-25, 11:00 PM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-26, 12:02 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Guys, I need a hug.
SpoilerSo, I just went to a dark place in my memories, between (interestingly enough) Khaos Komix and a conversation with Serps on facebook. (No blame to you Serpentine, I love you and I chose to go there). Anyway, I'm revisiting all my history of abuse and dysfunction in my mind, and I'm just stuck thinking that I'll never be comfortable with or understand my own sexuality. I don't know where I'm coming from, I don't know why one day something or someone can be so attractive and the next day thinking of the same thing will find me feeling so bad.
I'm glad I got to spend time with my girlfriend though. She's snuggly and wonderful.
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2012-10-26, 12:12 AM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-26, 12:22 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
*Hugs for Golentan*
Sorry to hear how things aren't working out very well.
Glad to hear your girlfriend helps.
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2012-10-26, 01:53 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
good ol' brohug for golentan. Remember that after rain the sun will come out again
and yes, girlfriends are wonderful that way... really wonderful...
Also, Thanks Siuis and TriscWarlock Poetry?
Or ways to use me in game?
Better grab a drink...
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2012-10-26, 02:00 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
I think I'll do the same and just say I'm dressed as a vampire. Then later switch to zombie. Maybe werewolf.
*Agrees with Lentrax* X3
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*So many hugs*
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2012-10-26, 03:11 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
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2012-10-26, 03:29 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
*Hugs for Golly*
Bianca, that works, but you miss the terrible, terrible pun that way.Princess in the streets.
Princess in the sheets.
Don't touch me I'm royalty.
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2012-10-26, 03:35 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
Oh, Golly, that's tough. *hugs*
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2012-10-26, 03:52 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
*Hugs. So many hugs.*
I'm sorry to hear about your dark place. I cannot, and will not compare your memories and experiences to mine because that is just wrong for anyone to do. But I will share a lesson it took me a really long time to learn (read: I still haven't fully learnt it yet.): Your past doesn't rule you. It affects you, yes. But it will only rule you if you let it.
Sorry I can't help more. Glad you have a snuggly thing to snuggle with though. *hugs*
Oh. Just got it. Clever, Zorgie. You cunning minx, you.
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2012-10-26, 04:00 AM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-26, 04:02 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAitP #28: Come Taste the Rainbow!
*Hugs Golentan*
On Halloween, the guy threatening to break my arm last year kinda soured me on the whole experience. Which, admittedly, was specifically a result of volunteering in a haunted house, but... Yeah.
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2012-10-26, 04:05 AM (ISO 8601)
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2012-10-26, 04:26 AM (ISO 8601)
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