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2015-11-06, 03:49 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
And there it goes, already boiling over.
Anyway. Small update. Already had a fight with Evie about when exactly I'll be moving in. This is going well.
I shouldn't have bothered posting on the first page. I'm probably just going to delete it to avoid wasting space that could better be spent by people arguing.Last edited by Jaycemonde; 2015-11-06 at 05:50 AM.
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2015-11-06, 04:11 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
*offers hugs* Hope you'll be able to sort it out soon, and welcome back.
On the asterisk thing, I've seen arguments for both, and personally I'm okay with either being used for me. *shrugs*
Also, I guess, hi again? I've been away for a while cause I'm dealing with some bad health stuff and that doesn't really have anything to do with the thread topic. Also uni is stressful. But, in good and thread relevant news, my sister's girlfriend is visiting for the first time today - I'm exited I'm getting to meet her.
–JuniperYou can call me Juniper. Please use gender-neutral pronouns (ze/hir (preferred) or they/them) when referring to me.
"We all are vessels of our brokenness, we carry it inside us like water, careful not to spill. And what is wholeness if not brokenness encompassed in acceptance, the warmth of its power a shield against those who would hurt us?" - R. Lemberg, Geometries of Belonging
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2015-11-06, 05:00 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
So.
That appointment I was supposed to have on Tuesday. The one where we'd start discussing surgical options. The one that got cancelled because the doctor was off sick.
I've just found out that, unless there's a cancellation they can slot me into, it's not going to be rescheduled until some time around ****ing APRIL.
This is not going well.
Hmm. According to the National Health Service Commissioning Board and Clinical Commissioning Groups (Responsibilities and Standing Rules) Regulations 2012, "appropriate treatment" for non-urgent conditions must be started within 18 weeks of referral. Well, from a little digging back through forum posts, I was referred on the 22nd of June 2013, and my first appointment was on the 9th of July 2014. That's, what, 54, 55 weeks? I wonder if threatening legal action would get them to pull their collective thumbs out of their arses.Last edited by Heliomance; 2015-11-06 at 06:31 AM.
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2015-11-06, 08:49 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
@Jaycemonde
Nice to see you got more freedom now that you live away form your family.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend's friend. Are you sure about the college thing? I mean haven't you already spent too much time on it to just give up now?
Is there a site where you post your art? like deviantart for something? Oh and Hi nice to meet you. :)"The last man on Earth sat alone in a room. There was a knock at the door."
I want more Strong female characters.
"In place of a Dark Lord, you would have a queen! Not dark, but beautiful and terrible as the dawn! Treacherous as the sea! Stronger than the foundations of the earth! All shall love me, and despair!"
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2015-11-06, 09:07 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Well the credits will still exist so Jaycemonde can always change their mind. Also for some people it isn't worth it to finish. I have to because I am going for science research stuff but some people who were going for creative degrees (studio art, film, etc) decided to leave because they found work. Both are valid paths. Also college is hella stressful.
In happy news after an incident while cutting an apple I got stitches but now they are out! While part of my finger is numb I can bend it and it healed together perfectly!Moved my stuff over to HERE!
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2015-11-06, 09:36 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Yeah, I don't actually care about asterisks myself. Use them, don't use them, I know what you mean. But I know that a controversy on the subject exists - people started using the asterisk to exclude enbys, apparently - and I don't use it myself out of respect for the fact that some people now have reason to be annoyed about that particular term.
I have to see an endocrinologist for a completely unrelated problem, but I likely won't be able to get the appointment for a month or two. They're going through the teaching hospital to keep the costs down, but the waiting list for the cheaper service is very long. I'll probably ask about hormones then. I probably won't get them at that time since i'm sure that having symptoms for a medical issue involving out of tune body chemistry is going to result in them going "No, I am not going to add extra complications onto this right now", and I still have to talk about the subject with my partner anyways."We were once so close to heaven, Peter came out and gave us medals declaring us 'The nicest of the damned'.."
- They Might Be Giants, "Road Movie To Berlin"
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2015-11-06, 10:12 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
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2015-11-06, 10:42 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Hi.
Like I said, what I posted in the other post isn't done by me, it was gift art for Hallow's Eve. I'm uploading all my commissioned and gifted art to e621, which I unfortunately can't link to because a). it's probably against forum rules and b). nearly every company, school, and small country ISP or network will have it blacklisted, though most of the art itself is SFW. If you do want to look it up just search for copyright:jaycemonde on the site.
I do make my own art too, but I don't really feel too excited about my skill or talent at the moment. I guess if you want to stare at it in vaguely unsettled incomprehension you can check my Tumblr. I almost never upload to FurAffinity these days and I haven't touched DeviantArt in years. Most of my stuff is grungy animals with guns and the like.
I also used to keep a thread going in the arts and crafts section here, but I haven't updated it in like a year and a half.vape naesh
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2015-11-06, 11:35 AM (ISO 8601)
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2015-11-06, 01:15 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
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2015-11-06, 02:19 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
http://hellyeahagender.tumblr.com/po...k-in-trans-bad
A few reasons there. It just wasn't being used for good, but more to validate binarist nastiness.
Tried talking to my partner about the endocrinologist visit. Didn't finish because they kind've blew up before I could even start talking.
They were frustrated that my voice is harder to make out right now, and went off on a rant that basically went like...It was a long rant full of misery and I simply had no good answer to it.Spoiler: Discouraging words"I don't know why you bother with any transition stuff - nobody is ever going to see you as anything but your assigned gender, because I can never get anybody to stop misgendering ME, and I hate it, but I just have to live with it, and anyways nobody sees our gender as real so we will never not be misgendered so why fight it?""We were once so close to heaven, Peter came out and gave us medals declaring us 'The nicest of the damned'.."
- They Might Be Giants, "Road Movie To Berlin"
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2015-11-06, 02:24 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Yeah. It might seem clever, but a name you can't pronounce, what's the point of that? Why make humanity's primary communications path unusable? It's a bit medical, and I know some people don't like that, but I use trans spectrum when actually speaking, and genderfluid to describe my own state.
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2015-11-06, 03:21 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Sorry to hear that JusticeZero.
And congratulations to whoever had something to be excited about. I'm only vaguely cognizant about what is going on a lot of the time.
But also, can we stop discussing the terminology stuff? I know you have a good idea how to explain things and reach a mutual understanding with someone else but it makes some people find it distressing including at least one awesome person who has recently returned from hiatus and is already considering departure. Evenven if I don't understand why it causes stress I don't think we should be doing anything to drive others away from the thread. Okay? And this should probably includes making last points because someone else will want to make a final point as well and it just goes on.
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2015-11-06, 03:44 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Ah thanks, that's slightly more information than I saw at a glance. I only saw the wikipedia page and had to rush off. This is good to know.
That's okay too. ^.^ I think both have their challenges (with quite a bit of overlap) and I wouldn't worry too much about where you are in things. In the end, if you're able to be more you you'll probably feel more comfortable and happy. Sometimes, I like to try to remind myself about that comfort if things seem too much and tell myself it's all worth it.
That's alright.
Ahah. I'm sure soon there'll come a day when your unblemished shaved legs will be visible (if you want).
Woo for no cuts!
I don't mean to nitpick, but I note those few are outside the spoilerbox. I can help ordering things if you want (after all, I pointed out more work for you).
Hurrah for a new home! \o/
That seems fair. Best of luck. Y'know what they say about all work and no play.
Ooh, that's a very kickass picture.
That's amazing news too. I wish you the best.
Oh no... That's a whole lot longer than 18 weeks. Really, over a year, ewww. And they're rescheduling this for ~5 months away?! That's so uncool.
I hope they sort their nonsense out. That's ridiculous.
That's rather sad.
Spoiler: Spoiler in response to a spoiler (idk if I should spoiler it?)If I were to answer to it, I'd say that transition is more for me than for the world and be telling the truth. Things are changing, though, and the future is unclear. Being prepared for a future where constant misgendering will not occur is not in and of itself a bad thing either even if it doesn't happen within a few years. (But it will, eventually; it has to. Peace and understanding shall conquer.)I go by they/them/their or he/him/his pronouns
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2015-11-06, 03:51 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
I have a LOT of Homebrew!
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2015-11-06, 03:53 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
New thread smell!
I didn't even know the asterisk was even a thing, much less that it subsequently became a Bad Thing™. I did find this though: http://www.transstudent.org/asterisk
I've always just used trans or transgender. (I did use "transgendered" briefly before later finding out that was also a Bad Thing™.)Plague Doctor by Crimmy
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2015-11-06, 05:13 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
I think we should use Trans*, especially in spoken language, and then just yell "STAR" as loud as we can to pronounce it. Even when whispering:
"Hey Noah, I'm actually TransSTAR so if you could say "she" and other female pronouns that would be great."
"Oh I'm sorry. I didn't know you were TransSTAR I'll try to be more considerate."
"Hey what are you guys yelling about over there?"
"Uhhh... celestial bodies?"
But anyways I don't actually want to argue semantics.
Or is it pedantics?
YOU'RE WELCOME! (I like yelling)
Someday, someday soon. But not really.
Also, you made me notice that my post looks like a ****ty poem:
Time to shave my legs
Bought band-aids for any cuts
Did not bleed today
Legs are now so smooth
But then I wore tights today
ExasperationLast edited by EternalMelon; 2015-11-06 at 05:14 PM.
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2015-11-06, 05:28 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Yeah, good razors are bloody expensive, but cheap razors suck so much ass!
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2015-11-06, 05:28 PM (ISO 8601)
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2015-11-06, 05:45 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Itchy stubble,
Spoiler
Turns to cuts and trouble
SpoilerUnless you double
SpoilerBurma-Shave
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2015-11-06, 06:00 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
I get past that by buying cheep razors and using them just once so they cant go bad!
Yeah, that doesn't work.
And now, because I'm not a huge fan of haiku:
Spoiler: Poem
Itchy scratchy legs
Irritates, and annoys.
Brings back smooth memories
Long lost shaven joys.
Time has come to recreate
This feeling I do miss.
To run my fingers over skin
And feel the soft soft bliss.
Ready now,
In a shower I do stand.
Cold and wet
And razor in hand.
Band-aids ready
To fulfill their need.
But through skillful hand
Legs do not bleed.
Briefly enjoy
My smooth soft skin
Before its covered
In soft cloth, so thin.
Put on a dress
And a smile.
For dressed like this
I'll be here a while.
The only one
Who sees me here,
Can't help but stare
In the mirror.
Her face is covered
In paint and powder.
Its not done well
But I'm happy for her.
I shave my legs
Just for one.
She's in the mirror.
She's glad its done.
I suck at poems
Which you can tell,
As this went on
It went downhill.
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2015-11-06, 08:15 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Jude P.
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2015-11-06, 11:25 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
I wonder if any of you guys or bi girls are interested in someone in Arizona.
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2015-11-07, 06:50 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
@Helio; not sure if threatening action would help, trans healthcare is just such a low priority that we get shafted. :/ You could try, but I'm not sure if that would garner you much sympathy from the NHS.
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2015-11-07, 06:54 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
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2015-11-07, 09:39 AM (ISO 8601)
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2015-11-07, 10:57 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
So annoyed at basically every guide to voice training I have seen so far. "Pitch isn't that important because there's a huge overlap. The important thing is to focus on rhythm and inflection! We will now spend the rest of this guide teaching you how to adjust your pitch." Bah.
Regarding razors, I use a safety razor. The decent blades for those are still very cheap compared to cartridges.Last edited by JusticeZero; 2015-11-07 at 10:59 AM.
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2015-11-07, 11:24 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
There's some razor subscription company around. Haven't tried them myself, but I think I've heard good things about it. A part of it is they're pushing it as gender neutral, too.
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2015-11-07, 01:55 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
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2015-11-07, 04:39 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBTAI+ #57 Infinity: I Love You, Always Forever
Aye. It's hard to shift your pitch to a feminine without falsetto, I think.