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Thread: LGBT people in the playground
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2007-11-06, 06:22 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Had a conversation like that with one of my friends, cept it stopped at the okay part and left a really awkward silence. Then the following day I tried not to remember he told me that. I'm still friends with the guy and have come to terms to him being bi. O those things that we do....then later regret.
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2007-11-06, 06:43 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Maybe I should clarify some of the subtext here.
- I've know this guy since first grade, and he knows my views.
- A mutual friend is also in the room and listening (he apparently already knew)
- We both go to a high school where the vast majority is okay with LGBT and other "weird" things (heck, some people smoke various illegal stuff on campus!).
So I think he was beginning with some very safe areas, and I don't think he was horribly upset, because he knew what I would think.
I also was trying to say that it won't harm our friendship.
Also, this was about 9 months ago, and we see each other at school most every day. He seems to be fine.
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2007-11-06, 06:53 PM (ISO 8601)
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2007-11-06, 07:02 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Unfortunately it doesn't work like this in real life most of the time.
Well, if it was so long ago the harm done, if there was any, probably will have healed. Still it would be good to tell him exactly that, that you respect him as he is and it will not harm your friendship. Sometimes being tactless about those things can be exactly the correct reaction though, so what do I know?
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2007-11-06, 07:15 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
A list of things that I have done (that might help, given your quandary):
1) Worn women's jeans. For one thing, a size six actually fits, and for another, nobody can really tell which cut is which. Unless its those low-cut jeans, but... bleh. Have some taste.
2) Gotten a manicure.
3) Experimented with jewelry. Earrings, necklaces, bracelets. All are either fairly innocuous or easily concealable.
4) Grown longer hair.
5) Strangely enough, I've found the natural feminine features of my body (mostly the face) tend to be much more pronounced when I'm wearing a hooded sweatshirt. That may just be how I'm seeing things, but we're talking about self perception, right?Last edited by PhoeKun; 2007-11-06 at 07:16 PM.
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2007-11-06, 07:20 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Traveling_Angel: I know a guy who when he came out to his best friend said "OK cool" 10 mins later he made a gay joke. He just stared at his friend and then the guy said "What just cause your Gay you think I'm going to change, that would be discriminatory". He told me that is when he knew they be ok so you could have done worse.
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2007-11-06, 07:20 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Vael:
Also, shave or wax your arms and legs.
It'll help you percieve yourself as a woman.
(Well, it helped me... )
Hot wax epilation is quite fun and almost painless.LGBT in the playground - banner by Doihaveaname?.
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2007-11-06, 07:29 PM (ISO 8601)
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2007-11-06, 07:32 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
I do it about twice per month.
It's not as painful as people say.
Well, it may be quite painful in the first time you wax, but that's because the hair roots are quite strong. They'll be far weaker from there on and will come out more easily.
You should try it sometime, Phoe.LGBT in the playground - banner by Doihaveaname?.
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2007-11-06, 07:33 PM (ISO 8601)
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Oh yes, I've been meaning to wax off my facial hair, come to think of it.
Seriously, whether I want to be feminine or no, I practically have to shave twice a day my hair grows so much. >.<
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2007-11-06, 07:35 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Oh... waxing facial hair can be quite painful.
More so in the first time, when the roots are strong.
In fact, I had my facial hair and my legs waxed today.
Still, I do that twice per month as well. Until I can afford laser and electrolysis. Then, I'll definitly get rid of it.Last edited by SMEE; 2007-11-07 at 05:09 AM.
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2007-11-06, 07:57 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
I've heard that lasers aren't all that great at hair removal, though.
But I'm definitely going to have to try waxing, as soon as I manage to get a paycheck (gods willing, tomorrow). Thanks for bringing it up/reminding me, SMEE.
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2007-11-06, 08:06 PM (ISO 8601)
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I've also heard that lasers are very expensive for hair removal. >>
*hugs bank account*
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2007-11-06, 09:15 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
Well, lasers can be effective, but they are both expensive and painful.
Ahem, anyway... I think what the whole thing comes to is love, and if it came to it I would rather be with a boy I love than alone, or even with a girl that I didn't love. Of course that is like saying genes look like twizzlers, and there are things like family and societal stigma to consider, but it's worth it isn't it?
But uh, yeah... *turns on All You Need is Love, puts on his Lennon glasses, and plays is Rick*
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2007-11-06, 09:20 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
First of all; potentially, you did. Some people will want the normal, others will want 'And you're still you - hell, as long as you don't pursue a crush on me, I really don't care.'
Secondly - Starcraft is a fricken' awesome game. You can't go wrong with Starcraft.
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2007-11-06, 09:53 PM (ISO 8601)
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I can't remember how my high school friend came out... but then, this is the guy with the nickname "Britney" Not to mention the guy who wore his sexuality like an accessory. Why, oh why did he think I wanted to know the intimate details of his escapades with middle-aged men?
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2007-11-07, 05:02 AM (ISO 8601)
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I've never felt particularly masculine as a guy and I find most masculine stereotypes to be quite negative. Whenever people talk about feeling or wanting to feel female their thoughts sound completely alien to me.
I just can't understand what the fuss is about."that nighted, penguin-fringed abyss" - At The Mountains of Madness, H.P. Lovecraft
When a man decides another's future behind his back, it is a conspiracy. When a god does it, it's destiny.
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2007-11-07, 05:09 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
I wanted to say something that may help everyone here, my first idea was 'there are more than I thought at GitP', my second was something along the lines of 'wow, they know how to write to eachother, don't they?'
The third thought?
Vorpal Tribble Avatar floating across the screen singing...
"I'm too hetero for this thread, too hetero blah, blah whatever comes next, so hetero it huuuuuurts."
Imagination.
I don't really know what to say...
Does anyone Dream?
If you run into a Dreamer, they're probably not doing it on-purpose.
I wanted to keep this one to myself until I wrote something but that's just silly.
It's easy to fall and easier still not to notice you've gone
Wearing white I started to climb and fell down my Purity went away
All this time to find an idea so wonderful
Wouldn't it be something to tell a story about how you climbed
Up instead of down?
From the shadows beyond the stairs to the sky and view above
Breathe deep, make the rain fall
Besides, it's hard falling over all the time
You should understand it's not exactly (of course it is. Exactly.) Heaven's wisdom.
--FaithdreamerLast edited by Faithdreamer; 2007-11-07 at 05:10 AM.
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2007-11-07, 05:19 AM (ISO 8601)
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Yes, it's not as effective as one would want.
But electrolysis around here can be pretty expensive. One session (120 minutes worth of pain and suffering ) usually cost me $68.
I'd need to do at least 3 of those per month, which would mean about $204 per month.
Laser will cost me about $188 per session, and I have to do 4 sessions, doing one session every one month and a half.
So, it'll be cheaper for me to go for laser and then electrolysis to get rid of whatever's left.Last edited by SMEE; 2007-11-07 at 01:06 PM.
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2007-11-07, 05:29 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: LGBT people in the playground
There should be more to that idea in case something bad happens like an I've ruined mortal existance again...
Knocked down below
Look up from your place down low
You never Fell
'Cause you're always under Heaven
(Unless you're not, I mean naturally there might be like, DoomMacGuffin destroyer of all existing universes or... well Heaven's Earth as Earth is to Heaven, of course I don't get it either but it's important that I understand that and I sort of do, so I can't say anymore, maybe I was trying to sound reassuring? Come off it, that first so-called poetic theatric up there was nasty evil stuff but it was still good as can be. It's Good/Evil on the alignment axis. Oh, well.
4748 for luck, numbers are numbers after all, numbers are just that.)
--Faithdreamer
P.S
Those had nothing to do with any of this and I've gone at MAYBE ruined everything with something that MIGHT mean what it clearly doesn't or DOES mean because that's what it means depending on what everyone thought it meant.
But on the good side of things at least it made people think.
I'll stop before I start and having begun the process of stopping I'll say one last thing that I hope doesn't stop the magic:
LOVE! *Not a hug but hug'd in spirit*Last edited by Faithdreamer; 2007-11-07 at 05:59 AM.
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2007-11-07, 05:58 AM (ISO 8601)
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...what? I don't understand what you're trying to say
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2007-11-07, 06:03 AM (ISO 8601)
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*bow* Goodbye Thread.
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2007-11-07, 06:08 AM (ISO 8601)
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That didn't so much make me think as make me very confused
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2007-11-07, 06:35 AM (ISO 8601)
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I respect your views on the matter, but if I wasn't already going to Hell for extreme blasphemy, being a complete jerk to everyone, and constantly betraying friends((They deserve it)), I doubt this will keep me from Heaven.
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2007-11-07, 08:30 AM (ISO 8601)
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Ah, but you have to love people who are unnecessarily vague and enigmatic because they think it makes them look cool. >>
Vael's thoughts:
Language was created for communication- communication is conveying thoughts and ideas, hopefully in an accurate manner.
If you don't say what you mean (IE, lie) that's one thing. But attempting to convey something while at the same time not being straightforwards about it usually just means you're wasting your time, since people have no idea what you're saying, and you just look foolish because you can't properly convey your thoughts or use language as it was meant to be used.
I have a similar philosophy on walking from one place to another, but that doesn't fit here.
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*backs up to topic*
SMEE, did you mean $68.00? The comma threw me off.
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2007-11-07, 08:33 AM (ISO 8601)
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Ah yes, I did.
Number rules around here says that you use a comma before the decimal part of number, not a dot, and I usually get kinda confused about it.LGBT in the playground - banner by Doihaveaname?.
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2007-11-07, 08:50 AM (ISO 8601)
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Vael, I've been telling Teru that for some time now... ((Faithdreamer, PM me with a reply if I'm get what you're getting at.))
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2007-11-07, 08:59 AM (ISO 8601)
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"that nighted, penguin-fringed abyss" - At The Mountains of Madness, H.P. Lovecraft
When a man decides another's future behind his back, it is a conspiracy. When a god does it, it's destiny.
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2007-11-07, 10:23 AM (ISO 8601)
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"Those that know they are profound strive for clarity. Those who would like to seem profound to the crowd strive for obscurity." Nietzsche, Gay Science, Aphorism 173. Took me some time to find the translation.
Brad Pitt does look good, but I prefer Johnny Depp myself. Even though he has a stupid surname.
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2007-11-07, 10:36 AM (ISO 8601)
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The music has not improved and the beatings will continue!