LGBTAitp - Part Twelve

[Anethiel]

So, here's something I've been struggling with. I'm sure some of you remember the debacle with my cousin's wedding and Mum insisting I wear a dress.

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So I do not know what to think, and was hoping other people would have an opinion.

At most of the weddings I partecipated, it was actually implicitly forbidden to wear too fancy a dress/tux, because that would have detracted attention from the bride/groom. (I do not actually endorse this line of reasoning either.)

I think that, unless you have a very, very conservative family, you wearing something other than a dress will most likely pass unobserved, rather than cause the wedding to be ruined forever.

(It must be noted that I am somewhat defiant of social conventions.)