What about when you have the ponytail on the side of the head? Pigtails? Braids? How about topknots?
I know that although it's more feminine (which on my face yields something like androgyny, I guess) I'm usually complimented on pigtails or pigtail braids or similar. 'Cause I go to a school where edgy is the coolest thing possible. (Oh wait that's just most teenagers. Durn hipsters.)