LGBTAitP - Part 22: The Best There Is

[Nix Nihila]

The way I understand it, and I'm not a trans person, just asking about it at all is rude. I've heard it talked about as 'birth name', but it can have a lot of very unpleasant emotional baggage associated with it. Better just leave it alone. Personally I don't see that it's my business, really. And I hate an unsatisfied curisoity more than most people.

Yes, it's usually considered rather rude to inquire about it. If I know you well enough, and it's actually relevant (it usually isn't), then I might tell you. Otherwise, you probably shouldn't ask.

Thanks everyone for the reassuring words.