Quote Originally Posted by Anarion View Post
To be fair though, Toph very clearly knows how to do things properly. She doesn't care in 99% of circumstances (and only put her knowledge to use in the show when they needed a disguise to sneak into the palace), but I could see for a wedding or ceremonies for her own children being willing to go through some of the proper customs for the sake of her parents and family. She's not totally unreasonable about such things.
Participate in ceremonies, sure, I could see that. Change her name? I could easily see her just flat-out refusing to do that.

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