What Arguskos said. Let's leave romance out of this for a moment. If you keep backing down over everything, people will stop respecting you. You can't have a healthy relationship of any sort if there's no respect there.

(The same works if you refuse to compromise on anything, but that's not Zom_B's issue. That's just a reminder that overcompensate brings its own set of problems.)

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You seem kinda bizarrely fixated on this bit Seriously, his appearance is fine. His fashion of choice suits him.
You've been asked to critique the same profiles around here that I have. Is it really surprising that I want to remind guys that looks/presentations issues affect them as well?