I don't intend to be directing this at anyone, but as a general observation, it seems like a lot of the recent woes to come forth have been of the, "I went through their messages," varieties. My question is, is there an actual point where that's acceptable? To me, I really don't think there is. Like, if you're questioning them enough to want to invade their privacy, why not just ask them? Put the burden of truth on the other party, you know? I mean, yeah, it's not exactly ideal, and has a lot of room to backfire in the form of lies and heartache and stuff, but... I dunno, I just feel like, that's their privacy. If they aren't explicitly telling you to check it out, you shouldn't be there.