Quote Originally Posted by Form View Post
When throwing around serious accusations like misogyny you should be specific.

Because that wasn't at all what I said.
I wasn't only talking about you, but the whole lot of you, making sweeping accusations and judgements. You are all aware that even where double standards are in practice (and far, far less often than you lot appear to believe) they go both ways, yeah? That a woman who is "too active" is liable to be labelled a slut or somesuch nonsense? If you're gonna make assumptions that women who don't initiate kissing because they're consciously thinking about how that's the guy's job, maybe you could have a shot at considering the possibility that maybe the reason they're so conscious of it is not "applying rules only when they're to your advantage", but fear of censure if they should dare step foot out of their allotted passive role.
Although personally, I find the idea that anyone would be pondering cultural gender roles when in a situation where kissing is known to be imminent pretty unlikely.