Originally Posted by
Castaras
Bolded is very true in my case. I have no problem if I feel I have a chance of making the move, but the bolded statement means that often I have to juggle whether I want to be "seen" as a slut, or go with going ahead and doing what I want. Good example of this is friends with benefits cases - guys who do this get praised and people telling them how awesome they are that they've got such a thing. Girls get people whispering behind their backs calling them a slut - even if they only have one such friends with benefits relationship, and are single.
Double standards are everywhere.