I haven't had time to catch up on the thread, but the mods I want to keep for the server are Redpower(The one that has the new blocks, according to one of the people posting here), Industrialcraft, computercraft, POSSIBLY buildcraft.
I may just disable EE in tekkit and call it good.


After forgetting to post this for several hours:
I can't figure out how to disable mods. The config file the site says I should edit doesn't exist.