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2012-08-16, 12:13 PM (ISO 8601)
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#813
Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 22: In Which Two Problems Prevent Each Others' Solut
I hear that.
It was the other way around for me, though. I hoped to remain friends with my former love and she just axed me completely. Sorry, still a little bitter about that but I'm working on it.
That's the bugger with relationships - it really needs to be a two way deal for it to work.
My small advice would be this - both of you are a little fuzzed up in the head right now and it's leading both of you to say and do things that aren't helpful. Give each other some proper space for about 3 or 4 days - it'll give you both time to settle down and get your heads straight. You've sent her a letter, which I imagine tells her how you feel far more eloquently than speech can right now.
After those 3 days, then approach each other - some thing neutral, like over coffee or something and see what happens then.