Got better news though! I brought BF to see my aunt and her partner, as planned. It went wonderfully well. We discussed a lot of things, including LGBT stuff (
a demisexual, a lesbian, a bisexual ciswoman and a bisexual transman walk into a bar...). I was really happy to see them again, and it seems the three of them click really well!
And we got sugar pie (the local specialty!) and a bunch of other gifts.
I'm making a note here:
huge success.
We should really see them again next time we come over. I have an awful lack of decent family, let alone family who can understand that the "female" friend who was regularly coming is now my boyfriend.