Mmh, yeah, I want to dress up but I'm not sure what I'll be doing. I've got a big con this weekend I'm involved with and I'm moving into my new apartment tomorrow so I'm totally disorganised! I think even if you're not going out, it's fun to dress up!
I laughed!
It's a fairly common problem for couples to not properly communicate enough. It's one thing to chat, but it's another thing to actually talk and listen such that you and your partner are both happy and secure. You should be able to talk about your likes and dislikes and fears and expectations. Inside and outside of the bedroom!