Think of it this way. If you're playing a Clone Wars game and the players have some reason to interact with a Jedi would any of them be upset if that Jedi NPC had Force powers? Probably not. Same thing with the KotOR stuff, if you have a bunch of characters that aren't Jedi but are fighting Sith I think they'd be sorely disappointed if the Sith didn't have Force powers.
I think what the players have decided as a group is that Force users are too disruptive for their play style. They don't want them in the group to play with, but would rather than have them to ROFLstomp.