Considering I went with the most convenient/least realistic approach... Yeah
Well, in my head I would really go for the magical transformation of complete looks change, except clothing. (We need to keep it somewhat realistic )
I wouldn't call myself sexually fluid but... I don't think I'd have an issue with being born a woman? Or suddenly turning into one? Well, I think I wouldn't like the monthly health problems but otherwise I don't think I'd miss being a man and it seems if not convenient at least interesting to think about it.
Well, that's obviously a way to look at it. Though I guess maybe some people would decide to rather stick with one gender while others vary depending on their mood? So I guess there'd still be kind of differences. Possibly.
As for the second point... I don't think I want to touch on that