Huh. I missed a line there.

Kato, what is honesty? Are you saying it is more important for me to cater to your biases by presenting my non-important birth sex, which is functionally a birth defect, rather than telling you the truth about my being a woman? That if I didn't want to be harassed for not having fifty thousand dollars American and five years worth of hormones and surgery, that I should pretend to be a man instead?

That's generally what that sounds like.