I'd be pretty pissed off if someone said they gave me a picture of themselves, and then it turned out to be someone else... A trans woman telling me they're a woman is not a lie, but if they don't want to show me what they really look like they just shouldn't show me anything at all; "I don't feel comfortable sharing my photos over the internet" is a perfectly reasonable, and honest, reason with no need for deception. I don't cope well with liars; I do fine with other people's need for privacy.
The rest... eeeeeh Kato's getting into dangerous waters there.