I didn't think it was particularly bad with respect to identity bashing, or what have you. Certainly better than the Stargate episode with Hathor. In part because the men in her thrall didn't act like mindless slaves, Coulson was still a main protagonist throughout, all the jibing was pretty gentle, and this sort of stuff happens in comics all the goddamned time.

More to the point, the theme of the episode wasn't that Men suck and Women are just inherently more capable for whatever reason. It was more about questioning loyalties and at what point is one justified in breaking their oaths, it just happened to have a comic book character with enchantment magic as her shtick to serve an antagonist and to push the melodrama along.