Good article, and thanks for pointing out why the link didn't work! Once I fixed it, it worked fine. And it reflects my views on the issue too. If you have to convince someone to be your friend, your partner, your sex partner, your spouse... then maybe it's better not to do it at all don't you think?

But I suspect people who want that to begin with are different on such a fundamental level that the article won't really mean anything to them.