Relationship Woes and Advice 25: Now with extra Valentine

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I only call it that because having cars as college students isn't the easiest thing and taking 2 hours just for travel in college isn't the easiest thing. But yeah. Not really very L, for LDR.

It's kind of like a MDR. Far enough to be a major hassle if you want to see each other frequently, close enough that you still can.

Then again, university distorts perceptions of time and distance. My idea of what qualifies as "a long way" has completely altered at least once since I left. While there, half an hour's walk seemed an almost unacceptably long way to go. During my second year, my college canteen was about fifteen-twenty minutes on foot and getting there even once a day felt like a serious inconvenience, let alone twice.