Making a binder

[Smorgonoffz]

In the campaign i'm currently playing, my character died.
Since all the roles are covered(rogue,druid,ur-lock,wizard,paladin) , i decided to do a jack of all trades: The binder

Race: Human
Class: Binder

Feats:

1)Ignore special requirements
1b) Expel vestige
1f)Fey Heritage
3)weapon focus (heavy mace)
4)Improved Binding(Bonus feat from class)
6)Fey Presence
9)Fey Legacy
12) Improved initiative
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These are the bare bones of the build, i'm inclined to take two different directions with this build:

1) Full binder(Rp and fun)
2) Binder/Koss(more optimized, since from 8th level i'll spec into koss with zceryll)

which talents do you suggest choose for these builds, i'm thinking of taking weapon focus, improved initiative, or the fey legacy talents( just for the fun of it)..

Also with standard wbl for a 11/12th level char (49k i think)

I was thinking of buying the tooth that gives +4 to cha
the lens that gives +1 to the vestige cd
The shour that give +2 cd to charisma based checks

what weapons and armor combo do you suggest would work? ye olde chain spike?