Originally Posted by
RoyVG
I found the situation quite ironic (I even told her), because the same story was told to me the first time I confessed my feelings for a different girl, with only a couple of minor differences. The main difference is that this girl was eager to continue the friendship we had built up over the last months and expand upon it. She didn't want to give it up and she even said she would hunt me down if I wanted to end it. Yesterday we had our first video-chat and it was great and we had a lot of fun seeing each other for the first time.
While technically I was rejected again, I did not feel so bad about it. The thing is that I now feel the urge to help her with her problem. People that have read my previous post a couple of pages back will see that I tried to do this with the previous girl as well, but that backfired in an extremely bad way. I want to offer her my help, and I want to bring this up, but I feel there is no good way to do so. Does anyone have any advice, should I mention it to her or not, or should I be more passive in my approach? Or should I just leave it altogether?