Personal Woes and Advice 3

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You need to readjust your focus. Part of that means that if you can't ignore place/concept associations to that person, you need to focus on building new associations to those places. Have a restaurant where that person hurt you badly? Make it the place where you and some friends have coffee sunday mornings.

If you can't avoid them or disassociate the memories, you need to face them head on and make newer, stronger ones.