Spoiler: ItSorry, Jor, I didn't mean to dehumanize you. The word leaves a bad taste in my throat for how much it has been used as an insult and a slur, but if you want to be referred to that way, I'll do my best to ignore that and use "it" when talking about you.
EDIT: for hip/butt binders, have you looked into postpartum binders? I don't think they go down as far as the thighs so it may be the kind of thing you're looking for.