Not really an answer, but:
A99:If your looking for a list of spells which each accomplish all 3, the answer is (I believe) that there are none - usually because they are not technically dead (ex: trap the soul).
If you are looking for combinations of spells that will get you there, the interactions are complex enough that is not a simple question (ex: do you really need possession of the soul, or well destroying it work?). I would recommend a separate tread.