Quote Originally Posted by Troacctid View Post
Anyway, it's pretty common to hear people shrug and say, well, I don't think about it much, but I assume I'd be fine either way. You hear it from cis people, you hear it from nonbinary people, you even hear it from binary trans people who haven't worked it out yet. Probably because it feels like a rational, correct-sounding answer, I suppose? Generally it means you should keep thinking about it some more. Tweak the questions, change the parameters around a little, explore your feelings.
It's also because some people really don't have any attachment to a particular gender. It's the sort of thing that might undercut not having thought about it much (I can say that I absolutely have), but it's there.