Gary says "Alright. It's just that back where I'm from, people get married pretty young. My dad was 20 and my mom was 18 when they got married. Family is really important where I'm from, so we try to start them as soon as reasonably possible. In fact, if I came back from the war, my parents would probably be disappointed in me that I didn't have anyone to marry when I got back. Is elvish society different? Is home not where the heart is where you're from?"