Your post made me feel a lot happier today, thanks Nemirthel. Aaanyways, about your mommy, i wouldn't worry too much. Doesn't seem like she has any control over your actual living situation or whatevs so her opinions can just bend off u harmlessly like water. You seem v-very prepared and 'put together.' If u do wanna chat with her about your transition, i suggest just like, telling her you're gonna do it when you wanna as a starting point so she can't argue w/u anymore about it.