Max Killjoy and others have explicitly attacked my preferences as being "toxic" without any evidence, and without even really understanding my preferences. I have done nothing like that.
You can't disagree with the argument that there is only one kind of game that people should play? If that is the case then you are part of the problem. The problem being that there is a culture that suggests that only one kind of game is appropriate. I want to have my variety.
A game that is competitive is not inherently toxic. Period.