My 2 cents on the texting thing; For me, it's contextual. A quick text to let a family member know you'll be home late? Fine. Someone watching for texts regarding a loved one in a serious situation? Sure you can still play, you need the distraction from real life, but also need to stay up to date. Constantly texting a new Significant Other? Yeah, both the party and your new SO want your full attention. Please pick one instead of disappointing everyone.