Koga, just because she likes you doesn't mean that she doesn't realize you are a donkey's behind. ;) I liked a guy for...oh...2-3 years. For all but a few months of that I realized he was a jerk. Which is why I never would have dated him. And the chances that her "not being ready for a relationship" really means "I don't want one with you" are high.

Other stuff I shall address later once my mind recovers...(Greek plus a belly dancing class plus Florida heat equals no brain power).

Cheers,
Syka