Erm.... yeah. Actually that was a brainfart. (Sunday morning, just woke up a bit ago....) Yes I did mean Jillian.

I am leaning toward the cognitive dissonance angle here.... especially on Ansom's part. For all Jillian talks about his pretty ideals, he's a bit of a twit. (Arguably as much of a twit as Stanley is.) Wanda going 'too far' is something I see as being more CD on Jillian's part. If your partner in that sort of relationship goes too far, you use a safeword, you don't wipe out their sanity.