Evil, if she's more worried her friends will think her a dork/nerd/whatever for dating you than about how you treat her, you deserve better. Like, my friends knew me well enough to know that just because I dated a guy that surfed did not mean I was a surfer.


Sharp, what MS said. You seem like you have a good handle and I commend you for cutting off contact. I had to do that with my ex (also an unhealthy relationship for the last year of it) and, it was hard, but best decision I made. Especially since he'd gotten upset at me dating a MONTH after he broke up with me and began dating the girl he CHEATED ON ME with. oO Talk about hypocrite.

Once guilt subsides, feel free to get in a serious relationship if you desire. But after a long term relationship, having something casual is actually really nice.

Cheers~