Emi:
"I'm coming in then." The door opens and just like she said, the psychologist enters.
"This is a nice room you live in. May I stay for a bit? I'd like us to talk." She takes a seat on the nearest appropriate spot.
"You were through a tough situation recently. Can you tell me how do you feel about it?"

Lorne:
"I agree, you should probably tell them. Even if your friends aren't aware of your phobia yet, they will discover it sooner or later. Your reasoning is sound, the phobia might be a trouble during missions if others don't know about it and aren't able to act in consideration of its existence."
"And if you're not sure how to tell your friends about it, then don't necessarily tell them all at once. Pick one you are most comfortable with and talk with them, one on one, and see how they react. Then tell another of your friends, and so on until they all know."