Thanks, sparky. My greatest thanks to everyone who has contributed so far.
Things will logically be different from person to person, and thus no one system can be uniformly correct, but I'm sure those 'stages' show up commonly in many or most cases. To say that they will always happen the exact same way every time would be roughly akin to saying every time you flip a coin, you'll get heads.
Anyhow
thanks very much, everyone. If it encourages, I should note that I will be thanking all concerned throughout the book.