When was the last time a girl saw a guy at a bar and then later connected with him on Facebook?
I *am* going to be pessimistic here: I met a smoking hotty, I chatted her and her parents up with that "confidant" thing you all keep telling me works so well, and at the first opportunity tried to reconnect with her. I'd still give it 100:1 odds I never see or hear from her again.
So in that regard, I picked a helluva day to stop sniffing glue