I thought that was the Atlantic Ocean?
Introbubbly: I dunno what to say. I didn't know what to say the first 5 times I read that either. Maybe read CoffeeIncluded's most recent thread on here and compare your situations such that yours seems to not be quite so craptacular.
I guess the only positive is that if he hasn't gotten violent as a result of his anger and resentment at having kids issues by now, he probably won't... I think, anyway.
Man probably needs some therapy but I shudder to think what would occur if you were to suggest it.