Presumably we have seen Lloyd's lover, but we still don't know who he/she is. Lloyd's squadmates jokes about "Lexi," which could mean either Alexis the wizard trainee, or Lexington, the guy with the tusk. They never used a gender-specific pronoun, so it's up in the air...but unless there's a third "Lexi", it's someone we've seen.
And I assume the ambiguity is intentional on Coffee's part, to mess with everyone's mind.