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Thread: LGBTAitp - Part Nineteen
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Dutch insurers pay for Christian anti-gay therapy
Published on 17 January 2012 - 11:36am
(http://www.rnw.nl/africa/bulletin/du...ti-gay-therapy)
Dutch national daily Trouw reports that a therapy intended to cure gay and lesbian Christians who consider their sexual preference to be sinful is fully paid for by health insurance companies.
Health insurance companies are obligated to pay for the therapy because the organisation providing it, Different, is an officially recognised institution for mental health care.
Medical organisations argue that the therapy is inherently flawed and potentially harmful. A spokesperson for Doctors organisation KNMG says: “As a general rule, a doctor is not allowed to offer a therapy that does not work. There is no scientific evidence that a therapy intended to suppress a person’s homosexual feelings would be effective.” He added that such a therapy could even be harmful.
Psychologists working for Different say in Trouw that homosexuality is not an integral part of a person’s psychological make-up but rather an ‘orientation’ that can be treated. The organisation claims a 30-percent success rate. Homosexuality is seen as the result of psychological traumas incurred during childhood such as a lack of clear role models and child sex abuse.
Health insurance companies are much embarrassed by the therapy. A spokesperson for the Achmea company says it rejects the therapy but is legally obligated to pay the bills submitted by these clients.Avatar by CoffeeIncluded
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Oh, the joys of misapplied science.
"Congratulations, we've managed to help you supress an important part of your psyche! You can now look forward to many years of depression and anxiety as a result of this. But look on the positive side, when this stuff kicks in, you can come and see us again for treatment!"
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At least they're thinking about doing something about it:
In a reaction to the Trouw report, coalition partner VVD (conservatives) and opposition parties PvdA (Labour), Green Left Party and the democrat party D66 called on Health Minister to remove the therapy from the basic health insurance package. D66 MP Pia Dijkstra said it was absurd that the government should pay for a “pointless and stigmatising anti-gay therapy.”
Health insurance sector organisation Zorgverzekeraars Nederland said it was unacceptable that a Christian gay therapy was being provided under the guise of an apparently solid diagnosis such as childhood trauma, the treatment of which is fully insured.Avatar by CoffeeIncluded
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I think it shows how cynical I am that the part of this story that surprises me is that the insurance companies are embarrassed by the stupidity.
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I start to wonder if my Two-Spirit character should have shamanistic powers. In one hand, she specifically wanted to be a warrior. On the other hand, I like the "ecomancer" Tula in The Pirates of Dark Water, and wouldn't mind making some kind of tribute.
I see. All of that makes sense. Well, I don't condone doping, but nevertheless.
(I guess I'll need to handwave a lot in my pulp fiction... At least I "limited" the MtF character(s) to fitness rather than bodybuilding, but still.)
More on sports:
Now I suddenly think there should be male contests for Fitness and Figure competitions, like there is a female one for bodybuilding. (Nothing *wrong* with bodybuilding per se, I just like to watch toned muscles as well... ... and personally, I would be more inclined to get toned muscles for myself; though functionality matters most to me.)
SpoilerI read somewhere about the absolute limit to how deep a (John Holmesian) penis could reach into a (cis)woman. IIRC it wasn't the ovaries that were hit, but the womb, but it does hurt a lot nevertheless.
Also, sorry for calling my you-know-what after a comic book character; didn't expect it would disturb you or anyone else.
What does "TMI" stand for, BTW?Last edited by H Birchgrove; 2012-01-17 at 10:51 AM. Reason: Grammar... always grammar...
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Sweet resolution:
SpoilerSo I e-mailed my sister-in-law about the whole kerfuffle I had bemoaned yesterday. She called me later that evening, and was so unbelievably good about it. -- apparently when I had said the "coming out," thing, because of the Harry Potter glasses I was wearing and an earlier crack I had made about taking female hormones, she thought I was joking.
She's going to tell my brother for me, and then I can discuss it with him. & she (re)assured me that in spite of his casual homophobia, he's a completely groovy man. Which I knew; and yet my brain just works itself into big, stupid knots over these kinds of things.
All, ergo, is well. Especially knowing the difficulties people in this thread face with unsympathetic families, I feel fortunate as hell to have the family that I do.
*monocle pops off* Oh my. My lens broke and the shards are everywhere. It's in my hair and on my clothes. I'm sorry. What a mess.
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In terms of laughs, there were those two I saw that were pretty funny. The anatomy in those two wasn't excellent, though. And the plot was pretty much nonexistent. Hentai only qualifies as "good" in my book if it has a good plot with a cutesy story and the minimum amount of sex to qualify as hentai. I prefer the cutesy love story part.
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Sweet. I'm glad to hear it's turning out alright.Last edited by noparlpf; 2012-01-17 at 11:09 AM.
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Glad to read it went all right Kneenibble!
Some of you who are Facebook friends with me know that a certain website wants you to help to stop forced sterilization of transpersons in Sweden. To those who didn't know, now you know. Those who don't find it on Google etc can PM me (I'll try to reply ASAP).
SpoilerAww, I hope you'll feel better soon. *hugs*
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I hear the society ladies are already gossiping like mad.
EDIT: I see everyone's favourite barbadin has put that Mindflayer quote in his sig. The more I roll the idea around in my head, the more I see potential in a really strong parody of the Twilight series. It's something I'm tempted to expand on, although it would actually involve reading or watching the entire Twilight series. -.-
I'm thinking book 4 would be a sell out success, especially amongst the tentacle hentai crowd but what would the rival species be? Owlbears?
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Latest news: boyfriend's back! He's in excellent shape for someone who's undergone the surgery he had.
(He was in another city's hospital, and I was driving him back home, so this was also my first time going on the highway since I got my license, and my first time driving so far/fast/long. So, another source of stress, especially for my mother. Everything went more than okay on the road.)
Now, the hardest part comes this week: convincing him to have more rest and not run everywhere like he usually does.Originally Posted by on Dwarf Fortress succession gamesOriginally Posted by Dwarf Fortress 0.40.01 bugs
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No, it can't be aboleths. The other species would have to be something warm and fuzzy to compliment the cold slimy mindflayers. How about catfolk?
Edit: Unfortunately, I wasted two days a couple summers back reading the Twilight series. I think me reasoning for forcing myself through it was that I don't like to hate things I don't know about. Even though I knew I'd hate it from page one.
Cool beans!Last edited by noparlpf; 2012-01-17 at 12:03 PM.
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Hmm, Lupins?
Fuzzy Mushroom Men/Myconids?
They're in Europe, where even people of the mindset to go into that field know that it's just bad press and that someone done goofed.
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It's always interesting to see how people's experiences with words and terms differ. Around here, IRL, I've only heard the original, masculine version used metaphorically in that sense without anything sexual once or twice, more often I've heard it used metaphorically in a sexual fashion not referring to actual sex, which is a bit odd and uncomfortable in a way that I just have to laugh at the thought of someone becoming violently and deeply sexual with an essay or chemistry lab.
Though the purely sexual sense still outweighs even the sexualized metaphor sense in my experience, but that may be because no one in my social sphere uses it regularly because it is so vulgar except on websites that don't care about vulgarity like 4chan.
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Yes, the implication to me is that someone is using a cutting implement of some sort or something not intended for congress, such as a spear. Or the person possessing ovaries has torn a hole in something and bodily climbed in until the entire lower half of her body and lower torso are engulfed, which is just wet and messy... Or it's a vulgar way of referring to standing in some unpleasant liquid such as raw sewage that goes past one's belly button. *goes to review if the ovaries are right below the bottom of the rib cage, right at that level, or slightly above*
It's less the name itself, though it does seem pretty jarringly bad as far as such things go in my experience, and more that you felt the need to share the pet name for your genitalia here.
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I sometimes glorify exceptionally extraordinary beards, but I think I do that for everything exceptionally extraordinary. Like really long hair, which I always get an urge to hug and play with. OwO
I honestly never used any reference to testicles in my speech (outside situations like this one!), I always preferred "They have guts!" or the Danish "Butt-cheeks of steel" if I feel silly. X3
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Spoiler"Meow!"
I have taken the liberty of translating it.
SpoilerWhile I am saddened that I can not inform you in person, I am currently fighting evil anti-LGBTA therapy from the hearts of this otherwise interesting country, I most certainly support this idea and allow you the use of my likelihood under consultation with Misser Keveak.
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I myself have some mimicry of artistic skill, so I would be delighted to attempt a few contributions.
If I may, I highly support a Mindflayer-based parody of Twilight and would also offer my attempt at talent for illustrations.
As long as I don't have to draw that. ._.
I suggest Changelings or other fairy shapechangers, they are not too obscure and would complete the Bloodsucker/braineater vs. Shapeshifter/forest-creature dynamic.Treasured Quotes
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It's probably because one of my friends says "balls deep" in the non-sexual way pretty frequently. So I've used to it that way. At first I pictured it like getting into cold water all at once (you know, something hardcore) because getting up to the genitals is the worst part of getting into cold water. Later I realized that might not be what it meant, Googled it, and had an "oh" moment. Despite knowing all kinds of things I shouldn't, I'm surprisingly innocent at times.
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It has the same potential for a niche following as the zombie Bronte books, only it's injecting a Deep Geek concept into a lowbrow book, instead of a Geek Lite concept into a highbrow book. All those eager to see Twilight smeared will flock thither. It must be done.
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Silliness
SpoilerYes.
I'm not really into beards at all (or mustaches, for that matter), but some of them are just so impressive I have to respect them.
Not if you're holding it together with copper rings - you could use it to charge batteries.
I wouldn't recommend getting too close to an electromagnet, though...
I actually thought of the meaning you meant, until Coid pointed it out.
Which reminds me; ... ...
You could have her be a warrior with some divination abilities. You may have to give her a weakness, to balance her out (perhaps a penalty to skill checks that require her to concentrate on the physical world?).
Also, sorry for calling my you-know-what after a comic book character; didn't expect it would disturb you or anyone else.
That's not weird at all, compared to what they 34 for the sake of having 34'd - for example, the number 34.
Anti-gay therapySpoilerI can't stand these programs. The very idea that one's orientation can be "treated" appalls me, and frankly it doesn't make sense to blame someone's parents for an issue that isn't even a problem.
Besides, if that were going to work then why hasn't it by now?
(I really want to take this further, but I'm neither depressed nor angry enough to make a good rant without flirting with the board rules right now.)
This makes me feel a lot better. Not as good as crushing bricks with a warhammer, but better.
That's what makes me believe it - I can't imagine anyone making up something so absurd, so it must actually be happening.
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