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2013-05-22, 12:09 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Jun 2010
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- Netherlands
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Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
*hugs*
There are different types of loneliness and it's not that weird to feel that way. Sometimes being with a group of people can even trigger the feeling.
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2013-05-22, 01:47 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Mar 2006
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- Charlottesville
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Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
*moar hugs*
Especially when you're single and out with a bunch of couples who keep reminding everyone that they're a couple.Tali avatar by the talented Thormag.
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2013-05-22, 10:47 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Sep 2006
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- NSW, Australia
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Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
While you may not know me very well, consider additional hugs/good vibes/positive karma sent your way. I know that feeling and it can hurt. Sometimes being alone doesn't mean being by yourself, but being with friends will hopefully alleviate that feeling.
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All I ever wanted was to pick apart the day, put the pieces back together my way - Aesop Rock "Daylight"
My PAD Herder (it's mostly up-to-date... mostly)
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2013-05-23, 05:56 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Sep 2008
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- Melbourne, Australia
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2013-05-23, 05:41 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Jan 2008
Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
I feel like I could use some advice, even though at this point I know what I should do, and just need to be talked into actually doing it, and maybe some help on how to.
SpoilerThere are two girls. One of them, let's call her Tea, I met last March, and I've had a crush on her since around late April the same year. Unfortunately, by the time I realized this (when I briefly dated this other girl, actually) and decided to do something about it, she started sending some very mixed signals. I am fairly certain she is single, but I don't know how she feels about me, and I'm kind of a coward. While we talk on the phone, I haven't had a chance to meet her privately since December, as we've both been busy with grad school, and I don't want to confess or do anything of the sort without meeting her. We agreed to meet after my finals are over, but I am still afraid I will chicken out once I do meet her because of some mixed signal she will send.
The other girl, let's call her Coffee, I met last Halloween, but we didn't really start interacting before February. She's cute, she's fun, she is interesting, we get along great... and she's taken. In fact, I knew her boyfriend well before I met her (it is possible they started dating after I met him). Unfortunately, my brain does not seem to register this, and I have difficulty moving on, or being comfortable around them (separately or together, doesn't seem to matter). I don't know if they or any common friends we have realized this or not, but I'm sincerely hoping they didn't, because I have no idea how any of them would react to learning this.
So I've got two girls, with no idea what to do next. Any help you can give would be appreciated.I use black for sarcasm.
Call me Rose, or The Rose Dragon. Rose Dragon is someone else entirely.
If you need me for something, please PM me about it. I am having difficulty keeping track of all my obligations.
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2013-05-24, 07:52 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Mar 2010
Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
Take the risk and ask the first one out directly. If things go well it might resolve the second problem too.
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2013-05-24, 10:30 AM (ISO 8601)
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- Mar 2011
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Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
New thread, anybody?
Jude P.
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2013-05-24, 04:33 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Oct 2008
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- Xin-Shalast
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2013-05-24, 05:54 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Sep 2008
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- UK
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2013-05-24, 08:20 PM (ISO 8601)
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- Jan 2007
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- Canada
Re: Relationship Woes and Advice 23: Answer Unclear, Try Again
NEW THREAD
Sorry if I'm stepping on anyones toes. I just figured there was no reason to sit around waiting. If it was someone else's turn let me know and I'll wipe the post and let it sink off the front page.
If not, let me know if anything else needs updating on the first post.Avatar by me