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    Default Re: A strange relationship situation, needing advice.

    Well, that was an unexpected u-turn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Briandude777 View Post
    Just giving everyone who helped an update: She's breaking up with him tomorrow (her words) because he won't stop humping her in public, and calling her best friend a slut. After she does that, she's going to date me. Thanks, everyone for your feedback. It means a lot.
    Great! But until she breaks up with him, you're still not involved with her.

    Also, get her something nice for Christmas.

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    Default Re: A strange relationship situation, needing advice.

    Good luck.
    In my experience people that jump out from a relationship directly into another usually do so only in retaliation or out of need for attention, so it rarely works.
    It might for you though. And after all, you are teenagers, making mistakes is inevitable and healthy.
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    Good for you, I mean it.
    Never forget the premises though. Being self harming and suicidal is not something you can suddenly flip a switch on. Chances are she's not healed completely, if at all... and you're going to have to be the person to deal with these things if you enter a relationship with her.
    So yeah.. be a little wary. I don't know what year you're in but she's been with this guy for some time and had several other boyfriends... what gives? do these "relationships" all last a couple of weeks?
    Starting early is all fine and dandy, but being unable to say no to anyone who looks your way (that's the impression of her you've conveyed) and being needy/thankful for it, are not trademarks of a good relationship or healthy perspective on relationships.
    It is a bit perplexing that she seems unable to be by herself. Probably a sign of very very low self esteem and insecurity.
    In other words, you might just be biting off more than you can chew.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Briandude777 View Post
    Just giving everyone who helped an update: She's breaking up with him tomorrow (her words) because he won't stop humping her in public, and calling her best friend a slut. After she does that, she's going to date me. Thanks, everyone for your feedback. It means a lot.
    Ha. Good luck. Be ready for some heartbreak though.
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    Default Re: A strange relationship situation, needing advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Briandude777 View Post
    Just giving everyone who helped an update: She's breaking up with him tomorrow (her words) because he won't stop humping her in public, and calling her best friend a slut. After she does that, she's going to date me. Thanks, everyone for your feedback. It means a lot.
    Now thats what im talking about. Way to go dude. Nice guy wins and it makes me feel good. Now to test my luck at the dating site i used which is http://www.freedatinghelper.com/reviews/blacktryst/ and see what will come my way.
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    Default Re: A strange relationship situation, needing advice.

    Good for her, dumping him. I hope for both your sakes that she is in a good place to start a new relationship, and that she continues to grow into a stronger person.

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